Introduction Candidate Application

A Who you are

Full legal name

Must match your ID — identity verification happens before any introduction.

Email

Phone

Date of birth

City

State

Occupation — and what you actually do day to day

Have you ever been married?

Divorced: we handle this case by case with pastoral care, not a checkbox. Your vetting interview will cover it honestly.

Never married Divorced Widowed

Do you have children?

No Yes — details in interview

B Your walk with God

Short answers. We're not grading eloquence — we're looking for evidence.

Are you a follower of Jesus Christ? Tell us what that actually means in your life — not the church answer, your answer.

3–6 sentences.

What church do you attend?

How long have you been there?

How involved are you?

I attend most Sundays I attend + serve in a ministry I attend + serve + am in a small group or brotherhood I'm between churches right now

Which best describes your church tradition?

Non-denominational Baptist Pentecostal or Charismatic Reformed or Presbyterian Methodist or Wesleyan Anglican Other

How much does her church tradition need to match yours?

Must match mine Prefer mine but open Christ-centered is what matters

What are your actual spiritual rhythms right now — prayer, Scripture, brotherhood? Be honest, not impressive.

C Your intent

This platform exists for men pursuing marriage. Not "open to it." Pursuing it.

Are you pursuing marriage within the next 1–3 years?

Hesitations are interview material, not disqualifiers.

Yes, that's why I'm here I think so, but I have real hesitations Honestly, no

Why marriage, and why now? What changed?

What have you done in the last 12 months to prepare to be a husband — not to find a wife, to become one?

Are you currently in any romantic relationship or entanglement, including "situationships"?

No, fully single It's complicated

D Family vision

Do you want children?

Yes Open to it No

Describe the home you intend to lead. What does your family look and feel like ten years in?

How do you understand your role as a husband — practically, not theoretically?

E Stewardship

Coarse strokes only. We will never ask for numbers, and we'd decline them if offered.

Which best describes your financial position?

Debt-free or nearly, saving with a plan Managing debt with a clear payoff plan Significant debt, working on it Honestly, it's disordered right now

Could you support a household today if God moved fast?

Yes Within a year of focused work Not yet

F Character & verification

Name of a pastor, elder, or mentor who knows your character and knows you're applying

We will contact them.

Their email

Are you a member of the Husband In Training Skool community?

Yes No

Since when? (month/year) optional

What would the woman who knows your worst pattern say it is?

Anything in your past — legal, relational, digital — that a serious woman deserves to know before an introduction?

Disclosed is not disqualified. Concealed-then-discovered is removed.

G Preferences & logistics

Youngest age you're open to

Oldest age you're open to

Distance

My metro only My metro + within ~2 hours Open within the U.S. if they're serious

Non-negotiables — up to 3. Choose what you'd walk away over, not a wish list.

Shares my church tradition Wants children Debt-conscious Has never been married Other

H Before you submit

What happens next: submitting takes you straight to secure checkout for the one-time $49 vetting fee — credited toward your first season if admitted. Then we review within 5 days and send your vetting-interview booking link. If it's a "not yet," we'll tell you why, and we'll tell you straight — most "not yets" come with a next step, because making men ready is literally our job.

I certify these answers are true and my own. I consent to reference contact and ID verification before any introduction. I understand that concealing material information means removal. I agree to the conduct standards: no harassment; every introduction treated with respect. I have read and accept the privacy policy.

Secure checkout by Stripe. One-time, credited toward your first season if admitted.

This is not a dating app application. It's a vetting application.